For Catholics attached to the Traditional Latin Mass, losing access means more than rearranging the Sunday schedule. It touches the worship that has nourished their faith, shaped their families, and given them a spiritual home. In this article, originally published in Crisis Magazine, Sheryl Collmer reflects on restrictions in Tyler, Texas, announced as the diocese marked a year without Bishop Joseph Strickland. For a community already grieving, the decision deepened a painful question: Do our shepherds understand what they are asking us to bear?

Writing from within that community, Collmer appeals to bishops for the courage to defend the spiritual good of their people. Her frustration is unmistakable, as is her determination to remain faithful to the Church she loves. She gives voice to Catholics struggling to reconcile obedience with wounds inflicted by those entrusted with their care—and who still long to offer their bishops loyalty, affection, and trust. Beneath the sharp criticism is a simple plea: Tend the flock. We need you.